We Are W/M
Empowering people to have healthy, confident and consensual relationships through evidence-based, relevant and trauma-informed education that they can relate to.
17,627+
People we have educated
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Organisations we have worked with
Participants leave with a deeper understanding of the subject matter
OUR VISION
A world where everyone can have healthy, confident and consensual relationships.
OUR MISSION
To give people the sex education we wish we had, to make sure they never go through what we did.
OUR APPROACH
You won’t find any birds or bees here - we don’t do metaphors.
Condoms on bananas? Not our thing.
Instead, we provide people with the latest, evidence-based trauma-informed information in a safe space, where no question is off limits. Our programs equip individuals with the tools and language to understand consent, build healthy relationships, and navigate online media.
Aligned with The World Health Organisation’s Sustainable Development Goal Target 3.7, we view sexual education as a fundamental right. Our trauma-informed, age-appropriate, and inclusive programs address gender equality, cultural relevance, and the positive aspects of sexuality. With sexual violence affecting one in five women in Australia before the age of 15, our programs tackle these issues directly, empowering people to protect themselves and others.
Designed by public health practitioners and informed by psychologists, educators, and young people, our activities are inclusive, relevant, and engaging. Delivered by relatable young health professionals using a cooperative learning approach, we empower the next generation to make informed decisions and thrive in a world where they feel confident, respected, and heard.
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We deliver to anyone, in any setting.
At We Are W/M, we believe in fostering positive change by equipping people with the tools they need to navigate the complexities of relationships and sexual health. Our programs are carefully curated to provide a safe and inclusive space for all people to engage in open discussions and address the specific needs and challenges they encounter.
Our programs are:
Evidenced-based
Trauma-informed
Age-appropriate
Delivered using a peer-to-peer approach
Tailored to cater to diverse needs
OUR PROGRAMS
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This program begins with a foundational understanding of sexual consent, grounded in the Commonwealth Consent Policy Framework. Participants will explore what consent looks like in everyday life, practice using consent language, and learn to navigate situations involving sexual activity. We also cover how to respond to and support friends in cases of sexual harassment or assault, including understanding the reporting process.
For a deeper dive, the program addresses consent in social settings, particularly where alcohol and drugs are involved. We explore tactics like gaslighting, coercion, and victim-blaming, and discuss the differences between sexual harassment and assault. Participants will also learn how to challenge harmful behaviours, call out sexual misconduct, and build the confidence to be active bystanders, contributing to a safer, more respectful society.
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This workshop is designed to help participants understand the spectrum of relationships and cultivate healthy communication skills. It covers the traits that differentiate respectful relationships from unhealthy ones, whether they involve family, friends, or romantic partners. Participants will learn to recognise warning signs of unhealthy behaviour, such as gaslighting, power imbalances, and other red flags, including issues like slut-shaming and undue pressure. The session also introduces an ethical framework for making informed, respectful decisions in relationships.
Building on the foundational understanding, this extended workshop delves deeper into complex relationship dynamics and ethical decision-making. Participants will explore how to address and challenge toxic behaviours, develop strategies for maintaining boundaries, and foster environments of mutual respect and trust. This session is particularly useful for those looking to enhance their interpersonal skills and contribute to healthier, more positive relationships in all areas of life.
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This workshop begins with the basics of social media literacy, covering recommended behaviors for usage, managing inappropriate messages and sexting, and identifying online warning signs. Participants will explore how algorithms shape online experiences, the impact of digital footprints, and the legal and ethical issues surrounding online interactions. The program also focuses on building and maintaining a positive online presence and creating healthy digital spaces. With additional time, the workshop delves deeper into these topics, offering a more comprehensive understanding of how to navigate the complexities of social media responsibly and effectively.
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This workshop provides a comprehensive understanding of sexual health and education, beginning with the fundamentals of body anatomy, safe sex practices, and effective communication during sexual activity. Participants will learn about setting and respecting boundaries, understanding sex drive, and fostering healthy, consensual relationships. The program also emphasises the importance of enjoyment in sexual interactions, offering guidance on how to create a safe space, engage in regular check-ins, and ensure mutual comfort and consent.
With additional time, the workshop dives deeper into these topics, equipping participants with the knowledge and skills to navigate sexual relationships with confidence and respect, ultimately contributing to more consensual and fulfilling experiences.
MEET THE CO-FOUNDERS
Founded in 2021 by Kate Raston (B.S. Health Promotion, GradDip. Sexology) and Nicolette Beard B.S. Health Promotion, GradDip. Education), We Are W/M was born from candid conversations about the all-too-common realities of sexual harassment, assault, and the stigma surrounding women's health and pleasure. Recognising a critical gap in comprehensive Relationships and Sexuality Education (RSE), Kate and Nicolette set out to make a difference.
With a combined 16 years of experience in health education, they've reached 17,000 young people across Australia, delivering open, honest, and evidence-based trauma-informed programs. Their mission is to ensure that every Australian has access to accurate information about sex, consent, relationships, and their bodies, empowering them to enhance their social and emotional wellbeing.’
Aligned with Sustainable Development Goal Target 3.7, we believe that sexual education is a fundamental right. We are committed to a human rights approach that embraces sex positivity, peer-to-peer education, harm minimisation and cooperative learning. By implementing these principles, we strive to create a more informed, safe, and inclusive community for all.
LEADERSHIP TEAM
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Kate Raston (she/her)
Co-founder and Sexologist | 2024 Young Australian of the Year SF
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Nicolette Beard (she/her)
Co-founder | Young Western Australian of the Year
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Britney Coulson (she/her)
Bookings Coordinator
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Christina Raston (she/her)
Funding Coordinator
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Katherine Kraayvanger (she/her)
Journalist and Media Coordinator
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Laura Meachim (she/her)
Outreach Coordinator
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Lucy Stewart (she/her)
Government Relations Coordinator
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Madeleine Watt (she/her)
Art Coordinator
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Regan Bosic (she/her)
Events Coordinator
FACILITATION TEAM
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Akshata Jois (she/her)
Facilitator
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Alani Jamieson (she/her)
Facilitator
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Aryan Kothari (he/him)
Facilitator
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Finnian Wrigley (he/him/they/them)
Facilitator
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Georgia Balding (she/her)
Facilitator
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Heather Bongiovanni (she/her)
Facilitator
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Jasmine Thomas (she/her)
Facilitator
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Jess Allan (she/her)
Facilitator
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Keoni Bassett (she/her)
Facilitator
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Neave Garland (she/her)
Facilitator
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Mariah O'Dea (she/her)
Facilitator
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Matthew Jankowski (he/him/they/them)
Facilitator
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Rebecca Marquardt (she/her)
Facilitator
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Sarah Vrankovich (she/her)
Facilitator
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Star Lumsden (she/her)
Facilitator
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Zara Skerritt (she/her)
Facilitator
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Zoe Lewis (she/her)
Facilitator
OUR ACHIEVEMENTS
